Let’s Get Personal: Thai Culture and Personal Interactions. It won’t take long while being in Thailand to experience first-hand how personal interactions are approached. Known as “The Land of Smiles”, Thailand offers hospitality, kindness and generosity at every corner.

Instead of a handshake, you’ll receive a wai (traditional greeting in Thailand with palms pressed together and a small bow). You’ll often times find shoes removed outside of an entry, especially into someone’s home, as a sign of respect before entering. Bringing a gift when visiting one’s house is often a respectful gesture. All of these things, as well as the information below, will help you adapt and further understand the beauty of the Thai culture.

Saving Face

Avoiding confrontation is prevalent in all of Thailand to not embarrass themselves or others, often times quite nice but can be frustrating if you’re not used to this in your culture. Think of it as Western culture’s idea of reputation. Saying “yes” when they mean “no” or “maybe” isn’t easily understood but it is important to know this when you interact with Thai people. The concept of respect and shame go a long way here as a Thai’s status dictates a lot for them. Thais tend to think in the now, as tomorrow is not here and thus, any repercussions of this way of interaction is not heavily weighed. You’ll also notice that plans are fluid, not always concrete and “reminders” and flexibility in planning is required. Embrace it!

Mai Bpen Rai

No worries! This way of life is refreshing and easily adaptable after spending some time in Thailand. You may also hear “Sabuy Sabuy”, meaning the same thing. Thais are not completely carefree and void of emotion, but often don’t express angst, anger and frustrations publicly or as freely. The “Thai smile” is more than likely what you’ll encounter when coming across most situations and interactions. This conditioning comes from being raised in such a manner and is beautiful when you step back and realize that many of the little things that we fret over really don’t merit such concern.

Head & Feet

Coveted as the most spiritual and respected part of the body, the head is often times not touched in Thailand. Ruffling someone’s hair or patting their head is seen as disrespectful and should be avoided. The feet, on the other hand, are considered dirty and characteristically low. Pointing with one’s feet or showing the soles of your feet to a person is insulting and rude.

Knowing and understanding these ways of life in Thailand are important to you better relating to the Thai people and respecting their culture. Learn to appreciate these customs and know that the occasional slip-up from time to time is understood and your efforts alone will be reciprocated with kindness. Enjoy what Thailand culture has to offer to you!